• alapakala@quokk.au
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      28 days ago

      Can all 200 of these change your undergarments, clean you up, and carry you around?

      ’cause for me that’s close relationships. Closer are intimate partners.

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          28 days ago

          Yeah, what’s your close friendship number?

          Extroverts have a much wider pool they can easily get close to.

          We are past talking about people you know.
          How many of them can change adult diapers for you?

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                  28 days ago

                  It’s quite the opposite. The fact you didn’t know how Gen Z uses the term «dunbar» today, makes your vocabulary far less limited than mines. Now that I got your exact array of closeness, you’re an introvert with high tolerance to social interaction. Your social battery is far more tolerant to stimulae.

                  Extroverts are the exact opposite, they feel alive yapping, mingling, touching, passing tea, doing things in groups. They recharge socializing. Stimulae recharges them. Heck, they love socializing so much, they forget to eat at times, and wonder why they feel so wobbly and shaky.

                  In terms of closeness, introverts deepen relationships, while extroverts widen their pools of trust. An extrovert can utterly be cradled by the masses, and introvert faints under public pressure.